How often do we see a beautiful woman around and are immediately attracted? It is a lot more common than we think. We instantly want to gain their attention and create a mutual attraction.
Men find women attractive based on very limited factors like their face, body structure, etc. On the other hand, women are much more observant and their attraction towards men is based on a lot of other factors too. Those include height, emotional stability, intelligence, looks, fashion sense, etc.
A lot of things can be modified and implemented in order to be more attractive in general. There are some things that will give you an advantage over others such as having a toned and muscular physique, being well-spoken, etc. To ensure that women find you attractive in the long term, certain grooming habits have to be adopted into your lifestyle. Regularity and consistency are key when it comes to looking your best.
1) Lack of sleep
Sleep deprivation is not only bad for your body, but it will give you droopy, red eyes, and dark circles which will just make you look ugly. Your eyes are the first thing that women will look at before deeming you attractive. And you always want to make a good first impression. Not enough sleep can make your skin pale. On a daily basis, sleep for a minimum of eight hours.
2) Foul body odour
Even we men don’t like the stench of each other’s bodies. In a social setting like a classroom or disco where people are physically quite close to each other, smelling foul will repel everyone away from you. Women, who always smell pleasant, want someone who smells good too. If you are someone who suffers from foul body odour, then consider changing your bathing soap. Also, use a deodorant or cologne every day.
3) Body shape and structure
Your body shape and physique have an effect on how women perceive you. They naturally select men who are confident and strong. A built chest, abs, and muscular arms are the most desired traits women look for. Body shape also includes your posture. Make sure you stand and walk with your chest out, shoulders dropped and head up. This shows confidence that women find attractive.
4) Poor etiquette
The way you greet someone, eat, and talk to people are your etiquette. If you want to attract a woman, offer them a firm handshake, smile, maintain eye contact, and give your full attention. Follow table manners when dining. Women like men who are civilized and act like a gentleman. Your courtesy will not only impress your girl, but you will also be able to build connections with influential people.
5) Shabby shoes
We all have a pair of dirty shoes that we don’t wear, right? But if for some reason you still do wear them, you are making a very poor impression on everyone around you, especially women. Dirty and rugged shoes show that you do not maintain yourself. Have a few pair of shoes in your wardrobe that you wear for different occasions. Clean or shine them whenever needed. Cleaned and polished shoes are a sign of an organized man.
6) Unkempt hair
Not taking proper care of your hair says a lot about your personality. Get regular trims and keep your sides and back clean. If your hair is long, use hair products such as pomades, waxes, sprays, etc. Your hair is also one of the first things that women notice about you. Nice and styled hair can make a strong first impression.
7) Acne or oily skin
The first and foremost impression that women have about men is based on their faces. Having a symmetric face makes us attractive. A lot of us are good-looking, but having acne or oily skin can undermine that. Women notice that and might not be disgusted by them, but they definitely won’t be attracted to you. Modern science has many solutions for acne-prone skin. You can use over-the-counter creams such as benzol peroxide and salicylic acid. There are medications that help with oily skin as well.
Women pay attention to the way you speak to others when they are around them. If you use foul language or speak to people with disrespect, women will be repelled by you. Women want men who are compassionate and gentle towards others. It is because women are naturally more empathetic compared to men.
9) Lack of confidence
Once a woman does find you attractive, you will have to gather up the courage to go and spark a conversation with her. If you start fidgeting with your shirt and look everywhere but her eyes, she will move on and look for another man with confidence. Women like you to approach them first with confidence. So, your lack of confidence can perhaps cost you a date with a beautiful woman.
10) Poor hygiene
Maintaining personal hygiene is very important once you have met with a woman and spent some time with her. Women notice small things like clipping your fingernails, smelling bad, etc. To be with them in the long term, you have to make sure you’re maintaining proper hygiene and staying clean.
Following the tips above will make you more attractive in the long term and you will attract more women. But it is important to remember that it is not the most important thing in the world. One does not necessarily have to be physically handsome or good-looking to attract women. Being an intellectual and truly being a gentleman goes a long way. Work on your intellect while doing the above things that will make you more attractive. Engaging in some humor and a bit of sarcasm can go a long way too.