Alright, buckle up, lads. Let’s get down to some real talk here. Forget the cutesy crap and fairy tales you’ve been fed. Today, we’re diving into the brutal reality of dating women. Picture this: every single woman you meet has three metaphorical buttons plastered on her forehead. These buttons are labeled “No,” “Sex,” and “Make Him Wait.” Yeah, I know it sounds crazy, but stick with me.
The Three Magic Buttons
When you engage with a woman in any romantic or sexual context, you’re essentially pressing one of these buttons through your words, actions, body language, tone of voice, and overall vibe.
- No Button: Hit this one and you’re done. She’s not just uninterested; she’s repelled. No sex, no chance, nada. You’re dead in the water, buddy. Application rejected.
- Sex Button: This is the jackpot. Press this, and she’s down for some action, as soon as her ASD (Anti-Slut Defense), age, and cultural/religious background allow. Your seduction skills come into play here, but if you hit this button, you’re golden unless you royally screw it up. She will be happy to be with you.
- Make Him Wait Button: Ah, the bane of every guy’s existence. She likes you, she’s attracted, but thanks to her ASD and societal programming, she doesn’t want to seem too easy. She’ll string you along with endless dates and tests before anything happens. It’s the “I’m not easy”. I need to make him wait button.
Dodging the No and Make Him Wait Traps
If your goal is to get to sex without jumping through a million hoops, you need to avoid the No and Make Him Wait buttons like the plague. It’s simple – focus on hammering that Sex button. But how do you do it? Here’s the breakdown:
- Appearance: Don’t show up looking like a slob. Basic hygiene and a decent outfit go a long way. Make sure you look good
- Compliments: Before sex, avoid compliments about her looks. It’s counterintuitive, but gushing over her beauty screams Make Him Wait. No compliments on looks are allowed.
- Money: Don’t splurge on her before you’ve hooked up. Spending big cash early on hits the Make Him Wait button hard. If you are buying her fancy dinners, flowers, etc you just spammed the make him wait button.
- Independence: Show you’re outcome-independent. You’re there to have fun, not to beg for her approval or affection. If you show her that you won’t do everything she says. It presses the sex button.
- Kino: Touch her casually and confidently. Physical touch escalates sexual tension.
- Sexual Frame: Maintain a strong, unshakeable sexual frame. Act like you know she’s already into you. Be the confident alpha male.
Avoiding Common Mistakes
Most guys trip over their own feet pressing the wrong buttons. They bring flowers, talk about long-term relationships, and think they’re making progress. Wrong. You’re just cementing yourself in the Make Him Wait zone. Any of these actions will put her mind in provider hunter mode. Now she is really gonna make you wait.
- Being Overly Nice: Sure, be polite, but don’t bend over backward to please her. Desperation reeks of the Make Him Wait button. If you are a pushover you are in the make him wait or no zone.
- Over-sharing: Don’t blabber about your future together or how much you respect women. You’re not writing a love letter; you’re trying to get laid. By telling your life story and marriage plans you just press the make her wait button.
- Financial Bragging: Mentioning your income or offering to take her on fancy trips? Congratulations, you’ve just smashed the Make Him Wait button.
Real-World Examples
Picture this – you’re on a date:
- Bad Move: Telling her she’s the most beautiful woman you’ve ever seen. (Make Him Wait)
- Good Move: Making a cheeky comment about her necklace and touching it lightly. (Sex)
- Bad Move: Complaining about your ex for half the evening. (No)
- Good Move: Acting relaxed, maybe even a bit cocky. (Sex)
The Big Challenges
Let’s face it, understanding these buttons isn’t a cakewalk. Here are the three big challenges:
- Ignorance: Most guys don’t even know the Make Him Wait button exists. They think expensive dinners and gifts will get them laid. Wrong. It will put you in the make him wait zone.
- Societal Programming: Many women are conditioned to hide their Sex button thanks to slut-shaming and societal expectations. They want you to think they only have the No and Make Him Wait buttons. Most men still think women are not that sexual.
- Counter-Intuition: The behaviors that hit the Sex button are often counter-intuitive. Negging, not complimenting, and being a bit of a challenge work wonders but seem odd at first when a guy is new at pickup.
Final Words of Wisdom
Remember, you have the power to choose which buttons you press. Next time you’re with a woman, visualize those buttons on her forehead. Make sure every move you make is hitting that Sex button. Be smart, be strategic, and for god’s sake, stop pressing the Make Him Wait button unless you enjoy blue balls.
So, there you have it. Get out there and start pressing the right buttons. Remember, it’s a game, and the prize is worth playing for. Cheers!
