Ever wondered why some women are so nice while others are absolute hell to be with?
The fascinating world of female dating personalities goes way deeper than most guys realize. It’s not just about who wears the pants – it’s about understanding the personality types and compatibility. Now, let’s cut the bullshit and dive into the real talk about the three types of women: Dominant, Submissive, and Independent. Spoiler alert: most of what society tells you is pure crap.
Dominant Women – The Alpha version of Women
Dominant women are the equivalent of the Needy Alpha dudes, except they’re packing even more heat. These are the ladies who can’t order a coffee without turning it into a power. These girls are very strong-willed and bossy types. Many of them also tend to be bitchy but not always. She will go down a list of rules and orders she expects the guy to follow. Sometimes even on the first date. Sometimes she issues them nicely and sweetly like a polite lady. Other times it’s in a very bitchy, or self-righteous manner. Either way, they’re setting rules faster than you can say “whipped.”
You know the type. She’s the one calling the shots, making the rules, and probably telling you exactly how to load the dishwasher (because apparently, there’s a “right way” to do it) 🙄
Get into a relationship with a Dominant and it’s like signing up for boot camp. You’ll get a manual of standards, rules, and expectations thicker than a phone book, and if you slip up, brace yourself for drama. These women love throwing tantrums. Miss a date night? You don’t love her. Forget to compliment her new shoes? You’re a pig. Welcome to Drama City, population: her. Dominants are almost always high-drama gals.
Think of them as the drill sergeant of the dating world – except instead of boot camp, it’s your your life they’re trying to control
These Dominants are smart, hot, and interesting at first. But give it a few weeks, and you’ll be knee-deep in her melodrama. I call these “Stealth Dominants”—fun initially, but a ticking time bomb. And guess what? 60-65% of modern Western women fall into this category. It’s the cultural norm. Older Dominants are even worse; a 43-year-old Dominant makes a 23-year-old Dominant look like a Girl Scout.
When you’re dating a dominant woman, get ready for some fireworks (and not always the good kind). These ladies tend to dominate every conversation – seriously, try getting a word in edgewise! They’ll set expectations higher than your mom’s hopes for your career, and they’re not afraid to let you know when you’re falling short.
### The Bedroom Paradox
Here’s where things get interesting… Many dominant women actually flip the script in the bedroom. While they’re busy running the show in everyday life, behind closed doors they often prefer to let their partner take control. It’s like watching Superman turn into Clark Kent – except way more fun 😏
Submissive Women – The Nicer Ones
Submissives are the chill ones, the yin to the Dominant’s yang. They want a man to take charge. They’re comfortable letting the guy be the boss but don’t mistake them for doormats. These women can run a business during the day and still prefer their men to take the lead at home, especially in bed.
Submissives can be high-drama, too—because, duh, they’re still women. But they’re way more flexible. If you’re a strong guy, they’ll roll with your quirks, unlike Dominants who’d rather choke on a cactus than bend their rules. Submissives tend to be more relationship-friendly and less drama-prone. Submissives tend to be the most feminine women of them all. Think of it like a CEO who loves being pampered at the spa
### The Beta Male Struggle
Here’s where things get spicy – and beta males are like oil and water. Sure, they might start dating because he seems “nice” and “safe,” but fast forward a few months, and she’s dying inside. She wants a man who can take charge and make decisions, not someone who asks her permission to breathe!
Submissives aren’t like beta males. They might assume control in a relationship if paired with a beta, but they hate it inside. They do it cause they have no choice. Deep down they want a strong man to take the reins and make them feel feminine. They’re around 25-30% of the female population. The more submissive, the more they love their role. They don’t loathe their submissiveness like beta males do.
Submissive women tend to cheat on betas cause they feel unhappy and stifled inside. They wanna be lead and not lead. When the relationship with the beta partner finally ends (which it will at some point), hopefully, she ends up with a strong man so she can be herself again.
Submissives love being submissive to their alpha male partners. There are only two exceptions to this: 1) Occasional disagreements in the relationship. 2) Overly brutal or disrespectful behavior from a man at which point it’s his fault.
### The Perfect Match
Now, pair a submissive woman with a strong, confident Alpha male? *chef’s kiss* It’s like watching a perfectly choreographed dance. He leads, she follows, and everybody’s happy! These women flourish with a man who can take charge without being controlling, who can make decisions without being dictatorial.
Think of it like this: submissive women don’t want a tyrant, they want a captain. Someone who can steer the ship while valuing their input. They’re not looking for a boss – they’re looking for a leader. And when they find that strong, confident man who knows how to take control while still treating them like a queen? That’s when the magic happens 💑
Remember fellas, if you’ve got yourself a submissive woman, your job isn’t to dominate – it’s to lead. Show strength without being controlling, confidence without being cocky, and authority without being authoritarian. Get it right, and you’ll have a partner who’ll move mountains to make you happy… and look amazing doing it! 🌟
Independent Women – The Rare Unicorns
Independent women are the Holy Grail of female types, around 10% of the population. These are the women who don’t need a man to feel complete. They’re strong, busy, and have a life packed with their own shit. Unlike Dominants, they don’t need to control you to feel good. They’re so engrossed in their own lives they don’t have time for drama.
Independent women can be hard to handle because they’re always on the go. They often have high sex drives, which is awesome for Alphas but a nightmare for tired betas. They might struggle with monogamy because they love variety and freedom. Kids slow them down, and they might secretly resent motherhood. Independents are not perfect; they can and do get dramatic at times just like all women. Independents also tend to be a little more masculine in behavior and personality, which can turn a lot of men off since most men prefer submissive women.
Here’s the kicker: Dominants think they’re Independents. They aren’t. Dominants are dependent on having someone to boss around. They can’t function without a puppet to control. So when a woman boasts about being a “strong independent woman,” she’s likely a Dominant in disguise.
The Matchup: Who Ends Up with Whom?
- Betas with Dominants: Betas get bossed around and end up miserable. Dominants get their power trip.
- Needy Alphas with Submissives: This works out because Submissives need someone strong to follow.
- Alphas with All Three: Alphas can handle Dominants as FBs, and have great relationships with Independents and Submissives.
The Explosive Combos
- Needy Alphas and Dominants: It’s a train wreck. They both think they can change the other. Spoiler: they can’t.
- Alphas and Dominants: They avoid each other like the plague. They sniff each other out and run for the hills. As an Alpha, I’ve had my share of first dates that ended with mutual respect but a clear “no thanks” vibe.
There you go, gentlemen. That’s the real deal. Now go out there and find the women you really want.
