We’re about to dive into the world of first date games! Now, before we get started, let me drop a truth bomb on you: first dates are about getting to know each other, not playing games. But hey, sometimes conversations hit a wall, and you need to bust out the big guns to keep things interesting. So, here are some flirty dating games to sprinkle a little spice on your date night.
Note: First dates are meant for both of you to get to know each other. It’s better to have a great conversation rather than a game. These games are meant only for emergency situations where the date is going boring and you want to spice up the conversation or introduce some naughtiness in your conversation.
1) Truth and Dare
Ah, the classic Truth or Dare. It’s like the bread and butter of awkward social interactions. Look, it’s fun and all, but let’s be real, it’s been done to death. Still, if you’re feeling brave, go ahead and give it a whirl. Just be sure to keep the questions PG-13, unless you’re both into that sort of thing. If you do decide to play it do adjust the questions according to your date. It’s a great icebreaker game. You can get to know each other and have fun while doing it.
How to play:
It’s a game with two choices, truth and dare. If you choose truth, then the opposing person will ask a question that you have to answer honestly. If you choose to dare, then you have to do anything the other person dares you to do. Both people take turns. In the case of a group, a bottle or something of that sort is rolled to select the two players.
2) Kill Marry Shag
Okay, maybe not the most politically correct game out there, but hey, it’s a laugh riot. Pick three people, and your date has to decide who they’d kill, marry, or, well, you get the idea. Best played in public places where you can laugh off the awkwardness. Best to use it on your first or second date when you get to know each other and want to have some fun. It’s meant to be played in public places and at parties. Or it can be used as a conversation starter as well.
How to play:
You pick out three people from the crowd or your friend circle. The other person has to choose a person to kill marry and shag for each person, respectively. Best for clubs and parties.
4) Never Have I Ever
A classic drinking game that’s perfect for breaking the ice. Just be sure to keep it light and fun, and maybe save the heavy stuff for a few dates down the road. Never have I ever is a drinking and dating game where the friends sit in a circle with friends. Need not be alcohol, though. A game mostly played in groups and trips and while traveling. The idea is for both of you to drink and relax, and make out while you are drunk depending on how good your pickup skills are.
How to play:
It’s a drinking game. Each person says something like “I`ve never ever kissed a girl,” and then all people who have kissed have to drink a glass. Then the next person does the same, and the game keeps ongoing. It`s a great game to get acquainted with each other.
4) Kindu Yes/ No Maybe
Think of this as Truth or Dare’s more sophisticated cousin. Instead of outrageous challenges, you’re just answering questions with a simple yes, no, or maybe. It’s a great way to learn a little more about each other without diving too deep too fast. This is a high school and college game well suited for dates. Depending on your date, adjust the questions to get the ball rolling. Best enjoyed when the two of you are alone.
How to play:
Here one person asks a question, and the other person has to answer it with yes no, or maybe. Both people take turns. In the case of a group, a bottle or something of that sort is rolled to select the players playing the game.
5) Who Am I?
This one’s all about flexing your brain muscles. Take turns asking each other riddles and see who comes out on top. It’s a fun way to show off your wit and charm.An excellent game for having fun on your date. Prepare fun riddles in advance to play this game correctly. Basically, you try to flirt and have fun by using riddles and double-meaning questions.
How to play:
Two people take turns in asking each other riddles. The person with the smartest mind as well as the naughty mind wins. Best to play face-to-face. Adjust the questions according to your environment and your partner’s comfort level.
6) This or That / Would you Rather?
A fun, lighthearted game that’s perfect for injecting a little humor into your date night. A great dating game for ice-breaking during a bad date. It’s also a great way to learn more about each other, share funny or embarrassing experiences, and flirt. Use it to spice things up on a boring date. This can be very useful if you flirt properly. Plus, it’s a great way to learn more about each other’s likes and dislikes
How to Play
Here you each take turns asking each other questions where they have to decide between two things. The game usually begins quite innocently and can get pretty naughty depending on which direction you take it. Deserves its spot in the top 10 dating games for new couples.
7) Truth and Lies
A twist on the classic Truth or Dare, this game is all about separating fact from fiction. It’s a great way to test each other’s honesty and maybe even learn a few juicy secrets along the way. Best for first dates. It can be played by more mature couples as well. Only the questions and punishments will change. Great for groups as well.
How to play:
You start by telling your partner two truths about you and one lie. Your partner then has to guess and find out which one is the lie among the three things you said. You each take turns and, in the process, find out a lot of *naughty and juicy* secrets about each other. As punishment for not guessing correctly, you can add some cute punishments like a kiss or a hug. The perfect game for your lover.
8) True or false
Another modified version of the previous dating game is “True or False.” This is a great way to avoid awkwardness during dates. And a great way to get to know each other without asking those boring interview-type questions. Similar to Truth and Lies, but with a little less deception and a little more honesty. It’s a great way to learn more about each other without feeling like you’re being interrogated.
How to play:
One of you will tell the other some piece of personal information, and the other has to guess if it’s true or false. This game was meant for new couples and first dates, so it rightfully deserves its place on the list of the top dating games for a first date.
9) Romantic scrabble
Who says Scrabble has to be boring? Spice things up with a little romantic twist. Just be prepared for things to heat up as the game goes on. Scrabble is one of those few games that everyone is aware of and played at least once in their lifetime as kids. But have you ever romantically played this, the naughty way? It is a must-try for dates if you have no other plans at home.
How to play:
You can also add some more fun to this game while adjusting the naughtiness by choosing a category like Kiss scrabble. On scoring set points (ideally 30 or 40), your partner has to kiss you, do something intimate, or share a secret something like that.
10) Online couple games
If you’re looking for something a little more low-key, why not try out some online couple games? There are plenty to choose from, ranging from RPGs to romance simulators. Just be sure to pick something that suits both of your tastes.There are plenty of online couple games available on steam and other places all over the internet. Some are more intense than others. Many have age restrictions so only play online couple games that you are allowed to play.
Tips for being A perfect Romantic Host:
- Prepare plenty of snacks especially chips and popcorn
- Prepare prizes for winners, so it becomes more interesting
- Keep romantic music in the background
- Keep your place clean and neat. Make sure the room smells great
- Have plenty of drinks available in your fridge. (Wine is recommended for those romantic moments)
- Keep romantic lighting if possible, candle lights
- Make sure to keep naughty games ready
So, there you have it, folks. Ten innocent dating games to keep things interesting on your first date. Just remember, it’s all about having fun and getting to know each other. And hey, if all else fails, there’s always Scrabble.
