Alright, gentleman, sit down and listen up. If you want to get multiple girls who want to date you and sleep with you, then you need to master the following trick that will fix your dating game. Here’s the unvarnished truth from your pal, served up with a side of brutal honesty and a whole lotta swearing. Buckle up, cupcake.
You need to get your shit together and learn how women consciously or subconsciously rate guys in their minds. Now every woman does this whether she realizes it or not.
The Points system – How women decide who they love and sleep with
Imagine a point system, ranging from 1 to 100. Every woman you meet has a secret number between 1 and 100 that determines if she’ll love you. This number is different for every guy. You might be a 77 for one chick and a 46 for another. If you hit or exceed that number, congratulations, you’re in. If you come close, you’re in the friend zone or the “wait and see” zone. Fall short, and you’re out faster than a fart in a windstorm.
Depending on the score you get from her she will decide which of the 3 categories she will put you in.
A) Say no and reject him
B) Friendzone him or make him wait as a backup
C) Date him or sleep with him
The number she has as her threshold is completely dependent on her and her upbringing culture etc. You cannot change the number she has in her mind. You can, however, increase the score you will get.
Her number is mostly set. It’s based on all sorts of crap you can’t control – like her past experiences and personal preferences. So, your job is to focus on what you can control: your points.
For eg, you can be a funny, smart guy with curly hair who is 6’1 and has brown eyes. For one girl you can be 40 cause she likes short guys around her height and doesn’t like guys with curly hair. For another girl, you can be 88 since she really likes tall smart guys with curly hair.
You get the point. Her number is different for different guys since she has things she likes and things she doesn’t. There are hundreds of different factors that make up a woman’s secret number but the point is A) you don’t know exactly what that number is, and B) the value of that number is more or less out of your control
Like I said previously the one thing you can control is how many points you get from her. Regardless of where you meet her.
Everything you do when you meet her adds or subtracts points. Let’s break it down for you slow learners.
Lose Points:
- Smell bad? Lose 12 points.
- Nervous and fidgety? Lose 20 points.
- Bad teeth? Lose 25 points.
- Overweight? Lose 15 points.
- Bad hygiene? Lose 50 points
- Needy behavior? Lose 40 points
- Compliment on her body? Lose 20 points
Gain Points:
- Dressed well? Add 15 points.
- Good physique with six-pack abs? Add 20 points.
- Good eye contact? Add 10 points.
- Confident, outcome independent demeanor? Add 20 points.
- Good manly beard? Add 15 points.
- Make her feel fun and exciting emotions? Adds 30 points
- Make her laugh? Adds 20 points
You get the idea. This goes on and on. Now the exact values of points are decided by the girl. I just made some numbers up to explain the point to you. There are 100s of things you can do to get points and lose points. And all of these are under your control.
So when you go out on dates and to meet women your job is to maximise your points as high as possible. Your appearance, confidence, dressing style, body language, the topics you bring up, kino, how you make her feel, etc are all things that will add to or remove your points in her mind.
When I decide to go out on dates I do the same. Maximize my points as much as I can. Trim my beard perfectly. Make sure my hair is properly combed. Make sure I wear good clothes. Etc etc
Does my hairstyle make or break the date? No. But it does increase my points. And the more points I have the easier it is for me to get dates and have sex with girls who I like and find attractive. On a normal date I will gain or lose points based on what I do through the date.
I make her laugh + 10 points. I am overweight – 20 points. I’m 10 years older than her -10 points. I’m confident and intelligent. + 20 points. I tease her and I’m a bit cocky. + 20 points etc etc
On and on until I get a final score from her. The actual numbers are decided by her so the above numbers are just for reference. So I don’t know the exact number but I do my best to get a really high score. Now based on what her threshold number is inside her mind she will decide if she loves me or not. And if you do more things right than wrong you will get plenty of girls who will like you.
Will every girl want to be with you? No. But a lot of girls will want to be with you. And that’s the goal. Up your odds so that you get more girls interested in you.
Understand that you can’t control her number. You can control your score, however. Being the best possible version of you ensures that you up your odds in dating dramatically.
Now there are people who like to do things that will reduce their points. Thats on them. For example, there are a lot of guys who like to compliment a girl’s physical beauty. Stuff like you are hot, or nice boobs whatever. That lowers your score but many men will still do it regardless.
These guys will say “Well, you easily sleep with women if you tell them they’re hot! I have done it so many times” Yes, you can. I never said you couldn’t do it. I only said doing so will cause you to lose points. Why make the game difficult for you for no reason? If you are a logical guy then you want to make it as easy as possible for you. So you don’t want to lose points, you want to get laid. (Don’t you?)
So this is the system women use to decide who they will love and sleep with and who they will ghost. Your job is to be the best possible version of yourself. Make sure you get the highest score and up your chances with every woman you meet. If you understand how women select who they love and sleep with. You can easily find solutions to make your life easier.
Final Word: Get Your Score Up
If you’re serious about getting laid, focus on upping your score. Pay attention to your appearance, demeanor, and everything in between. Suck it up, make the changes, and you’ll be swimming in ladies before you know it. Stop whining, stop making excuses, and get out there. Your balls will thank you for your efforts.
Now, get off your lazy ass and start scoring those points. If you can’t figure this out, you might as well join a monastery.
